Wednesday, December 12, 2012
Event #1 Dirty Deeds with Dee
Although this was a small group, it made us all comfortable with each other, especially since we all almost new each other. It was a group of about 7 or 8 with all participants except for two from our class. Deirdre claimed she didn't have much planned but was able to talk for about and hour and a half. We discussed safe sex techniques, consent, how to give better oral sex, which lubes and toys were the best to use. We also talked about different types of sex and how to bring up a conversation to your partner if you want to try something new or if you're uncomfortable with something that's going on currently. We all had so much fun, that we ended up staying for a a while after to continue discussing. She also gave all women smartballs, which do your keagel exercises for you! It was a great time. It's great to create a safe space where people of all different class, race, sexuality and gender identity can talk and discuss sex on the same level. It's important to teach about sex positivity because its one thing that defines new wave feminism from the 1st wave feminism. In order to be practicing sex positivity then we need to be participating in it as well.